Can someone reset my password? I dont ever recall signing up to the site but it says my user name is registered so I need the password reset I have already went to the reset link awhile ago but nothing in my email and I lost out on an eBay action because I couldnt use Mybidder.

You need to check your junk folder or adjust your spam filters.
I have no control over your emails once you receive it on your side. It's been delivered more than once to your hotmail account.

Hotmail? I was looking in my gmail account since that is where my registration key was sent.

So we have that sorted out but how do I link my eBay.ca account? when I click on link it takes my to eBay.com

also my user name on my eBay account uses a small v while Mybidder.com acount uses a capital V.

The hotmail is what you set for your account. The sniper has no way to figure out that you don't use it or use something else.
Please make sure you keep it up-to-date.

The case of the "V" should not matter, but that's how you set it when you registered. It does not affect the linking, so you can go ahead and link it.